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for you my love…

“Make You Feel My Love”

When the rain is blowing in your face,
And the whole world is on your case,
I could offer you a warm embrace
To make you feel my love.

When the evening shadows and the stars appear,
And there is no one there to dry your tears,
I could hold you for a million years
To make you feel my love.
I know you haven’t made your mind up yet,
But I would never do you wrong.
I’ve known it from the moment that we met,
No doubt in my mind where you belong.
I’d go hungry; I’d go black and blue,
I’d go crawling down the avenue.
No, there’s nothing that I wouldn’t do
To make you feel my love.
The storms are raging on the rolling sea
And on the highway of regret.
Though winds of change are blowing wild and free,
You ain’t seen nothing like me yet.
I could make you happy, make your dreams come true.
Nothing that I wouldn’t do.
Go to the ends of the Earth for you,
To make you feel my love
To make you feel my love

— 1 month ago
#love  #song  #adele  #music  #forever  #dedication 
starting to make a bit of sense.

starting to make a bit of sense.

— 2 months ago
#self-love  #get to know me  #introspection  #perspective 
And so….

And so I asked god for help
But I didn’t think he heard me
I turned my back and tried to deal
And so the devil found me

I asked a friend “What should I do?”
All felt lost, the days of old – anew
She said “You’re in a valley Friend but don’t despair
As you’ll find your way up that mountain again.”

And so I asked god for help
But I didn’t think he heard me
Until he chased the devil away
And helped me gently fall asleep

(attributed to: http://princessprayer.wordpress.com/2012/03/02/and-so/)

— 2 months ago
#God  #guidance  #poem  #support 
I don’t miss you anymore.  I am so much better off without your negativity.

I don’t miss you anymore.  I am so much better off without your negativity.

— 3 months ago with 53 notes
#fuck it  #fuck you  #negativity  #go away  #over  #leave me alone 
silence is a luxury that I’ve managed to keep and I have no plans on making a change.  I find silence and solitude to be quite rewarding.

silence is a luxury that I’ve managed to keep and I have no plans on making a change.  I find silence and solitude to be quite rewarding.

— 3 months ago with 1 note
#silence  #luxury  #solitude  #appreciate  #slow down  #tech 
Imagine

the words are so simple, yet so powerful… if only we could focus and understand that we can ALL make this change… just imagine!

Imagine there’s no Heaven 

It’s easy if you try 

No hell below us 

Above us only sky 

Imagine all the people 

Living for today 

Imagine there’s no countries 

It isn’t hard to do 

Nothing to kill or die for 

And no religion too 

Imagine all the people 

Living life in peace 

You may say that I’m a dreamer 

But I’m not the only one 

I hope someday you’ll join us 

And the world will be as one 

Imagine no possessions 

I wonder if you can 

No need for greed or hunger 

A brotherhood of man 

Imagine all the people 

Sharing all the world 

You may say that I’m a dreamer 

But I’m not the only one 

I hope someday you’ll join us 

And the world will live as one

— 3 months ago
#imagine  #lyrics  #John Lennon  #song  #peace  #imagine  #simple 
Three Things You Should Know About Creativity

NOVEMBER 10, 2009
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Creativity is a big concept for a photo blog. We spend so much time fighting upgrade fatigue, learning new software, working out new techniques that we often have very little time for creativity. But just taking note that we need to think about creativity isn’t enough. How do we go about it?

Everyone goes about being creative differently. What works for me might not work for you, but I’m going to just share these thoughts on creativity with the hope they will help you concentrate on something other than the next lens you think you want to buy.

For me, creativity is about removing artificial limits. And I think most limits are self-imposed. More precisely, these limits are directly tied to low self-esteem. Now I know you might be thinking, what’s that have to do with creativity? In my experience lots.

We put boxes around ourselves and make decisions that hamper our growth because often, as artists, we don’t really believe in ourselves. How many times have you thought you were just faking it? Or have you ever just assumed that you weren’t good enough? These thoughts murder your creative spirit and you get started on a more creative path when you stop that behavior.

The creative process can start to open up once you just trust yourself. If you empower yourself to try something different and give yourself permission to fail, you become more creative. Don’t make the metrics of success or failure the guidelines by which you proceed. Instead make experimentation, expression and joy the metrics.

The second big point of contact for me is authenticity in my work. If you can start to look at authenticity, rather than originality, you will become more creative. I learned this concept best by listening to John Paul Caponigro. He was talking about other art forms and mentioned that in Asia for instance, artists don’t worry about coming up with something new, they work within an existing form and try to expand it. When I read the photographic forums, the younger photographers seem to beat their chests the loudest and proclaim their creativity simply because they did something “new.” Usually what they did wasn’t new at all, but rather new to them. But it doesn’t matter. Worrying about doing something new ends up stunting creative growth. Being creative does NOT require doing something new. It requires doing something that is authentically your real personal and true vision. If you take away anything from this blog post, I hope it’s that.

Lastly, creativity is about choices. The choices can often be based on a few dynamics like tension, juxtaposition, conflict and resolution. These are good tools in a creative environment. But sometimes, you learn most of your creative ideas from pure experimentation. Free-form music – called jamming often lets musicians come up with their best sounds. Writers use free-association and brainstorming to come up with their best words. Why shouldn’t photographers use their own brand of visual experimentation to find their own visual creativity?

To sum up – if you want to be more creative, start loving yourself enough to give yourself permission to fail. In fact, better yet, don’t even worry about winning or losing. Just DO.

Don’t focus on NEW – focus on authentic. Being original isn’t being new – it’s being you.

And riff. Go out there and jam. Try this and that and then invert it all. Go crazy. Do something you’ve never tried.

I wrote this post as much for myself as I did for you.

— 3 months ago
#article  #photography  #Scott Bourne  #creativity